gee, that was fast...

A month or so ago, Sam was working himself up into a tizzy over the fact that Kayla couldn't quite walk yet. He did everything he could to encourage her, but to no avail. No amount of cajoling, bribing, or prompting could motivate her. She remained stubbornly a butt-scooter.

A seasoned father overheard Sam's woes and was quick to both commiserate and offer encouragement. "When my wife and I had our first child, we made the same mistake, the whole encouraging walking thing. With the second child we learned our lesson. We took a much smarter course of action: we discouraged walking. You know, pushing her down when she stood up. "

At the time both confusing and ludicrous, this pep talk now makes perfect sense. Since our post on Halloween, Kayla has become an expert walker and life has never been harder. In the few short weeks she's been walking, she's gotten herself lost at Target, almost run over by a car at the grocery store, and pummeled by a stampede of churchgoers taking communion . She's even tried to run away from us! Praise Jesus for short legs and small steps.



Another testimony of little Kayla's strong will and the sanctifying work of parenthood. A breach baby who refused to be flipped, a fluent scooter who refused to crawl, a late walker who refused to be rushed before her time. Slowly, we have come to grips with the fact that Kayla will do things her own way in her own time.

Sam and Liz feel quite blessed that we have been chosen to steward such a passionate child and that God has been so gracious to us as we stumble along on this path of parenthood. We prayed that God would change our child, but in his infinite wisdom and grace, he chose to change us instead. Praise Him who would complete the work that He has started in us, as mysterious as His methods may seem to His children who lack understanding.



If there is one piece of advice these young parents can give to our very specific audience of "people who read this blog and have children under 14 months" its this: Enjoy every step of the way! In this whole walking ordeal, we had gotten so caught up with the destination that we failed to enjoy what Kayla was doing along the way. Now the time has flown by so fast, and although hindsight is 20/20 we can't seem to remember 1/2 the stuff that has happened.

So there you have it. Kayla has accomplished so much over the span of her little life; an awe inspiring testament to our Creator's handiwork. Below are two videos taken almost exactly five months apart. We ask you this, what were you doing five months ago?

lessons from dad

In this day and age, being a parent has reached a sort of cult perfectionistic status level of hyperactivity. Everyone's feeding their kids super baby food, buying plastic-free toys and organic cotton onesies. We Paks have definitely been victim to the peer pressure as well. For example, does a six month old really need weekly gym classes? Six months and 300 dollars later, well, Kayla's face just about says it all.

So while other parents are taking their wee ones out on fun educational outings and reading them classic children's literature, Sam is schooling Kayla in the art of XBOX domination. Their current favorite game is the oldie but goodie Def Jam: Fight for New York.

Sam's a pretty hard teacher. He's all about tough love, and doesn't let her win just because she's a girl. She's definitely got her dad's competitive spirit! Unfortunately, it looks like its gonna take a lot of practice before Kayla can truly best her old man. She's still working on the "losing graciously" aspect of the game.

All kidding aside, Sam and Liz love little Kayla and are so excited to love, guide and protect her through the next couple decades of her life. With the help of the Holy Spirit, we pray we'll do a good job.

Proverbs 22:6 Train a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.

better late than never?

Kayla gets her walk on... on her own!

"pak" in the day: part one

Due to the fact that we jumped on the blog bandwagon so late, many ultra exciting things have happened in the past that may or may not interest you. We'd like to chronicle those things here for your reader enjoyment under a monthly segment we've cleverly named "Pak" in the Day.

For this first installment, we bring you Kayla's birthday. Like, her actual birthday, the day she was born! Little Kayla was a breach baby and was scheduled to be born via C-section on August 16th, 2006. However, she decided to forego the scheduled arrival date by making her appearance unfashionably early on August 10th. Liz was a little nervous by the change in plans, but of course Sam, being the laidback fellow that he is, took it in stride.

The operating room was a little scary, but because of the awesome doctors and nurses at Group Health, Sam and Liz were perfectly at ease. They were also very excited to meet the newest family member! Sam was especially excited to wear his hospital scrubs, which was the only thing we had insisted on in our birth plan. After only 45 minutes of suspenseful waiting, Kayla Grace Pak made her entrance into the world and the Paks took their very first family photo together, courtesy of the friendly operating room anesthesiologist.

The rest of the day was spent in what became typical Kayla fashion for the next three months. Vigorous eating followed by what appeared to be a traumatizing bath followed by hours of wheezy fitful sleeping. The baths really took a lot out of her.

It wasn't how we planned it and it wasn't what we expected but Kayla's birthday was really everything we could ever hope for. We are so grateful and blessed to have such wonderful friends and family who took care of us in those first couple weeks. Thanks, everyone for making what could have been a really stressful time so very wonderful.

trick or treat!

It's not exactly a big holiday in our family, but Halloween 2007 will forever go down in Pak family history as the day KAYLA TOOK HER VERY FIRST STEPS! Thats right folks, you heard it here first (well, those of you who we didn't tell yesterday, YOU heard it here first. Everyone else heard it here second). It's still not her preferred mode of transportation, and she still prefers a guiding hand from Sam or Liz, but for all intents and purposes she's now officially a walker.





To celebrate, we took our little spider (much love to the Ossingers for the fab costume) down to the Children's Masquerade party at our church. She had a great time "playing" the super fun carnival games and raiding through the candy buckets. We think she likes Twizzlers.





Unfortunately, you only get candy if you WIN the carnival games, and since Kayla got her athleticism from Liz's side of the family, we ended up going home with a pretty small stash. To be honest, it's all basically stolen/pity candy. She didn't win anything.



Great fun for the whole family. Thanks to everyone at Mars Hill Church who made the Masquerade Party possible and to all the people who brought canned and dry goods to donate to Northwest Harvest. We hope to make this an annual Pak family tradition.